I walked past this sign and wanted to share it with whoever needs to know the truth it holds. Often our insecurity, fear and desire for comfort and control, turns a place where we should pass through, into a place we park up our lives. The enemy loves to create parking bays in times of struggle, testing and disappointment. He wants you to park up and give up, in the place God is saying pass through and progress on. Be...

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Discipline is a word we love to hate. We want the results but the routine, well that can get boring, monotonous. Yet our approach to the hard work that brings the best results, either makes the discipline just bearable or enjoyable. I have had to change my perspective on many occasions when it comes to the daily commitments that discipline demands. So whatever discipline you are struggling to embrace. Be it exercise, diet, prayer, chores, study, music, commitments. Today think...

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Here’s the thing about dreaming…dreaming is the easy part. We can all dream but can we all commit to the work those dreams will demand? All big dreams need to be placed inside our bigger God. I find every time I bring my dreams to His word, He lovingly shows me that the greatest work that has to be done is within me, before I scale the next mountain around me. Dreams are our passion feeders and discipline is our perseverance...

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Just whilst I was on my phone the other day, I caught a picture of a lightbulb very much like this one, and it spoke to me. Our potential is amazing but finding our purpose is better. This light bulb has great potential to illuminate places and yet without being used for the purpose it was designed it not only offers no light, but it is fragile and susceptible to being broken. This light needs to attach itself to the...

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  2017 will see many things happen. Changes in circumstances and relationships. Good and bad times will be navigated. Times when you will dig deep and climb high. Though the terrain ahead can be hard at times to predict and difficult to prepare for, there is one thing we can commit and give our time to this year that is guaranteed to bring great reward to you and your world. Your plan to work on you.   Take time at the start of...

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Often we pray for stress to be removed when we are the sole Creator of its source. We want less drama but can't help putting on the act. So today be honest and take a moment to address the stress and increase the peace. Maybe you can take some time to remind yourself first, who God is and then be still in his presence. Trusting his words and ways, over your own plans and agendas. Today where can you live from...

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It's officially here, the last month of the year. So here's what I am thinking. What can you do to make this December one to remember? Amongst all the Christmas preparations take a moment and think about this month. It represents the end pages on your 2016 chapter. Sometimes we allow what needed to be said in one year, roll into next years story. We allow loose ends to be left untied, when with a little time some could be taken...

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Think about this for a moment; God is on your side, He is working on your behalf. He is your very present help, right now He is with you. If we really believe and comprehend those truths then maybe we could let go of some of the lies that we so often carry around, causing our hearts to be heavy and mind to worry. We can so easily over exaggerate the stance of others and under play the incredible promises of...

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Just because you can carry it, doesn't mean you should. Sometimes we add things to our life that don't really fit. Though we may find a way to strap those commitments, relationships, and opportunities on, it doesn't mean they are going to be able to stay on. If what we attach was placed there through our insecurity or anxiety, striving or people pleasing, it will only take a little adverse weather for what was holding it in place to lose...

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You may have heard it said many times before, but it's worth remembering. Elevators provide a quick and effortless ride to the next level. They even allow you to skip levels in between. The stairs however require effort and patience. You feel the strain the higher you climb. The staircase makes you work muscles and builds strength and in life we often ask for elevators. We pray for elevator opportunities and look for the elevator possibilities. Yet so often God...

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Trust Begins Where Familiar Ends

Trust takes a step where the path of familiar ends. So often we follow the familiar as it’s here and we don't have to test our trust. Trust, however, is something that can only deepen when it's allowed to travel further. It's felt when we start to trust our kids to have more independence and watch how this creates for them, new roads and new adventures. It's seen in the space that trust will clear, so a team can express...

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Circle the Promise, Not the Problem

We all have problems to navigate. But the question is, what do you see in the midst of the trial?   When God had his people circle Jericho, it wasn't to tease them but to teach them. Jericho was a problem but they had to circle it until they could see the promise. The promise that: the walls would fall, they would conquer the enemy and it would be not by their power but more through their patience.   We all have those...

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I have always struggled with the statement 'fake it til you make it'. Surely we don't need any more fake in our lives. The enemy loves it when we pretend to be something we are not. He will take your fake forgiveness, fake freedom any day. He knows while you live with fake you will never attain real. At Cherish conf this year I preached a message called 'the great pretender!' We have all done it, been it. We all have...

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Choose Your Own SoundTrack

As you head out into another week, what are you choosing to listen to? What's the playlist in your ears? We all get to choose. The noise that surrounds us, will never have as much power as the noise within us.   When stress is playing over the sound system around you, you can choose to play your own soundtrack of peace. When the volume is turned up with negativity, you can adjust your own levels and listen to something with...

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The God Pause

It's not always easy. Often we just want to say what we feel needs saying without taking a moment to think about it. The urgency in a moment to react or the burning desire to share the news. All this, partnered with the frustration that festers asking you to give it airspace. You see conversations are good, sharing can be healthy and voicing concerns or questions is part of the journey. But here's a little tip that keeps what we...

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Sometimes Your Best Response is No Response

At times we can all feel misunderstood. We get frustrated by a wrong judgment, annoyed by a decision that is based on wrong information. Yet often, It's these moments that are some of our most defining, not because of what was said but because of our response. When Jesus was wrongly accused he didn't waste words in worthless arguments. When his disciples were rejected he told them to stay silent and move on. Jesus was teaching them how to save...

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Where Faithfulness Overcomes Feelings

Offence, hurt, misunderstanding, they happen to us all but they can actually be used to grow and improve each one of us in our call. At each difficult crossroads we have to decide what we allow to lead us into the future. Our feelings will grab the steering wheel and try to redirect our path. Hurt will ask you to make haste and run, offence will say retaliate and misunderstanding will manipulate. Often, what began as a small problem is...

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All the Possibilities of Today

  Everyday as you awaken, so does possibility. It lingers in the atmosphere. What could you do? What can you change? You see possibility is ready to enlarge your heart and explode with potential and suggestions for how to reach further and live greater. Possibility is aware of your God, who is above it all and makes all things possible to those who believe.   Yet at the side of possibility is the anxious and attention seeking “limitation”. Limitation waits for you...

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Don’t Lose Your Fire

  Passion is often the first thing to die when problems or pressure emerges. Yet it is the fire within us that has the ability to consume the opposition and the distractions around us. Remember to tend the fire of your soul today. When doubts want to dampen your spirit throw more coals on the fire of your faith. Add more conversations and confessions that feed the fire and stoke your spirit. With fire raging in our hearts, our hope will...

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If the feeling is mutual, the effort will be equal

Sometimes we place too much effort in the wrong direction. This can result in our life slowing down and adding a drag effect to our progress. Instead of focus and clarity, we can end up having drama and diversions. When those we thought were committed become complacent then the weight we are carrying becomes unequally distributed. As a result you can become overwhelmed and disappointed as now where you agreed to share the load, you have personal overload. When you set out in...

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This weekend we hung a tree swing for our kids (& all our big kid friends) We selected the largest and strongest tree in our back yard as the place where it would be hung. As we cleared the ground beneath the tree, we saw just how incredible this trees root system was. Its roots were so deep and impressive, developed over hundreds of years that tree was going nowhere. That's why we had chosen it to bear the weight of...

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Sometimes your feelings will slam a door shut that faith wanted to keep open

  We all have to learn how to discern between feelings and facts in any given situation.   Too often our feelings want to be heard, demonstrate their displeasure, make known their objection or approval. Feelings want to find friends who affirm them and join conversations that justify them. However feelings can often overwhelm and avoid the facts. Facts don't get involved in the emotion as they are more focused on the right outcome. Facts are clear, even when it is hard to face...

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The Art of Still

The Art of Still

The art of still is something we learn over time. Being still means to find that depth of trust and steadiness, that no matter what the storm, the still within holds fast. In life many things want to knock you off balance. Relationships, reactions, attitudes, circumstances they are the invaders and thieves of stillness. Stillness is not being apathetic or ignoring the issues. Rather, it is making a choice that even when the adversity approaches, you will stay committed to...

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What Drives You?

What drives you? It's a question we must regularly ask ourselves. For what is behind the wheel, will determine not only where we end up, but how we get there. I have found too many times people allow ambition to take the wheel of their life. Ambition is a terrible driver. It cares nothing for the passengers onboard, only that it gets to it’s desired destination first. It drives with little awareness of the other vehicles around it. Cutting in...

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Be The One.

All day, all week I am going to be giving thanks for so many things God has done over the last few days at Cherish Conference.   Let's build something that radiates his beauty. Let's not look for the glory, let's not use one another to advance our own cause. Let us be the ones who set one another up to win. Let the radiance of His light overwhelm the darkness. For in Him and through Him we SHINE. Light to the...

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You Always Have A Choice

Often we can feel like we have no options. Circumstances or people around us can seem to be more in control of our future than we feel we are. It's at those moments when we start to believe a lie. The lie being 'you have no choice, so just accept it, put up with it, deal with it!' But that's far from the truth and it's what I want to remind you of today. You see, you may not have chosen the...

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Who can you inspire today and what will you inspire?   Inspire someone to go a little further, smile a little brighter. Inspire another to love deeper and sing louder. Inspire with words and without words. Inspire through actions and through stillness. We all get to be an inspiration today. We all get to choose the way which we enter a room and what happens to the atmosphere in that room because we are there.   Today - remember you can be an inspiration,...

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Show it, don’t just say it.

We are all preaching something with our everyday lives. The way we conduct ourselves when no one is watching, the way we speak when we don't know people are listening. The way we stay disciplined when no one is checking on us. The way we love when no one is loving us back. The power of a great message is not only found in its delivery but in its authenticity.   Let's live out a far better message everyday, than in saying...

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Today is a Good Day Too!

What is it that makes you excited? What sort of days or events make you ‘lean in’ to what the future holds for you? It's always good to remember that while attributes like consistency, discipline, hard work, commitment, loyalty, truth, persistence may not appear exciting; these are the very qualities that make the exciting possible. No great adventure happens without greater preparation. No incredible parties take place without incredible planning and commitment. No amazing mountain top view is achieved without the...

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Checklist for the Season

At this, the start of a new season, I think we need to realign our focus and decide what we spend our time on. “Dream Big, Work Hard, Stay Focused and Surround Yourself with Good People” Yep...

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Fly High, Fly Well.

When a pilot is preparing for a flight, they have a checklist of elements which all need to work together before take off in order for the flight to be successful and not stressful. They need a flight plan but also need the correct fuel. They need a trained and committed crew, the right amount of passengers and to ensure the weather conditions will not impede the flight. Today maybe you’re not flying as high or as fast as you want...

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